Barabara1956 recently sent me a brief but rather complimentary email describing herself as a ‘crazy put-upon spanking fan since 1975.’ Published with her permission, she asked:
Although your heroines often cry, it is usually from surrender or pain. Mostly women cry when they are spanked from emotional release and the catharsis of a good spanking.
In my youth and now, I always cried after a spanking when I felt good and not bad. This was true even when I had been a bad girl and deserved it. I knew from the age of 19 that it would always be like this. As I got older I often need a reprise of pain and surrender when I was out of line for a true effect, but luckily my husband understood.
Anyway, I love your stories, especially when the women have a good cry and are sent to the corner where they belong, tee-hee.
This put me in mind of a comment culled from (I think) Fetlife, which had been put aside for a future post.
Tricia wrote:
I wasn’t spanked at home, but seem to have courted it one way or another all my adult life. I guess that does make me a spanko, duh (or I wouldn’t be here) but why did it take me 10 years to get it. Go figure.
But what I wanted to say was before I realized that I needed to be spanked I only resented those spankings that didn’t make me cry. It was almost as if sub-consciously (sorry is that a pun?) I was thinking, well if you are going to spank me then do it properly.
I especially dig it when a man takes me there, but until recently I found that most men used to hang back or stopped when I kicked off (which is totally cool and a bummer at the same time), where women usually let me have it. In my twenties I had one crazy sexual-social life.
Serves me right for being a consensual non-consent fetishist I guess.
I love the ‘consensual non-consent fetishist,’ comment. I might use it some time.
